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#StopTheIgnorance – Transgender does not equal Drag Queen

I’ve been neglecting my web site for a while and I am sorry about that… Busy time this holiday season, but this time of the year tends to bring out more of the depression in people one emotion also tends to bring out other emotions and opinions – even those people want to try and keep hidden.

I keep tabs on Twitter and Facebook and other sites to stay informed and I always seem to find ignorance – especially about the transgender community.  You notice I said the transgender community and not the entire LGBTQ community.  The main reason is that the LGB portion of the community has become more accepted.  Why not the Transgender?

I follow someone on Twitter who described a perfect example of ignorance that just bothered the hell out of me.  If we have to use labels fine, but make sure you understand the label FIRST.  Don’t make assumptions without understanding.

We all want to be happy.  Well most of us anyway.  That happiness is different for each person, but the perception to most of the ignorant is that happiness is based on a static number of items… Home, Family and Money. Transgender persons want the same things, but the road to happiness is not based on static items.

The biggest challenge of course is CHANGE.  If we met someone for the first time and never knew they were transgender, we probably wouldn’t question, suspect or even care; but when we know the person and the changes begin to take affect, the fear and perception of the visible image brings out some very difficult and unwarranted feelings.  This is unfortunate and forces many in the Transgender community into hiding or worse to give up.  It is the strongest in the community we look up to and admire and rely on for answers and support.

Transgender does NOT equal gay, lesbian, drag queen, queer or any other label you can think of.  Transgender actually equals PEOPLE!  People who laugh, cry and love like all of us and choose to be happy like most of us.  The focus on the physical attributes makes you an ignorant bigot – no different from those who expressed their bigotry about other races and other genders – we don’t live in the 1900’s anymore.

To those who do not understand or fear these great people… GROW THE FUCK UP AND REMEMBER THEY ARE PEOPLE TOO!

 

My Perfect Partner

My Perfect Partner

Available in Paperback & KindleUnlimited
July 20th

A couple struggling to make ends meet is taking its toll on their relationship.  As a result they decide to separate for a while to try and get their careers on track, but while Brenda’s career is moving up, Jim’s is spiraling down the drain.  His frustration and extended time off lands him at a goth bar where he meets Olivia, who sees something in him and tries to help him see his mistakes, by teaching him how the other half lives.

His experimentation reinvigorates Jim and his new found focus has carried over to his career as his work ethic has been noticed by his boss, his colleagues and his wife Brenda.  As the two try and patch things up, Jim is very secretive about the change in him which has Brenda suspicious so she follows him and discovers his secret. Outraged and humiliated, she decides to show him just how different she can be as she  forces Jim to carry out his secret fantasy into a reality he is not ready for.

The Working Girls

The Working Girls
A Sissification Story
[Available on Amazon KindleUnlimited]

Alan and Kelly have had a pretty good life together. While he works nine to five, she travels all over the country and when she comes home, their reunion is nothing short of carnal… at least it was. The stress of work and being a part was taking its toll – so much so that Kelly quit her job and took a new one so her travels would be shorter, but when Alan learned of her new career, his curiosity became even more stressful. In order to understand Kelly’s choice, he decides to visit the “office”, and learns more than he bargained for as he is transported to an earlier time of his life when he and Kelly were not exclusive, but he has to go through a transformation that is guided by Marla and Lena, who do not take no for an answer.